Atomic Habits day 83

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Song: Bohemian Rhapsody by Queen 3. Imitating the Powerful Humans everywhere pursue power, prestige, and status. We want pins and medallions on our jackets. We want President or Partner in our titles. We want to be acknowledged, recognized, and praised. This tendency can seem vain, but overall, it’s a smart move. Historically, a person with greater power and status has access to more resources, worries less about survival, and proves to be a more attractive mate. We are drawn to behaviors that earn us respect, approval, admiration, and status. We want to be the one in the gym who can do muscle-ups or the musician who can play the hardest chord progressions or the parent with the most accomplished children because these things separate us from the crowd. Once we fit in, we start looking for ways to stand out. This is one reason we care so much about the habits of highly effective people. We try to copy the behavior of successful people because we desire success ourselves. Many of our daily habits are imitations of people we admire. You replicate the marketing strategies of the most successful firms in your industry. You make a recipe from your favorite baker. You borrow the storytelling strategies of your favorite writer. You mimic the communication style of your boss. We imitate people we envy. High-status people enjoy the approval, respect, and praise of others. And that means if a behavior can get us approval, respect, and praise, we find it attractive. We are also motivated to avoid behaviors that would lower our status. We trim our hedges and mow our lawn because we don’t want to be the slob of the neighborhood. When our mother comes to visit, we clean up the house because we don’t want to be judged. We are continually wondering “What will others think of me?” and altering our behavior based on the answer. The Polgar sisters—the chess prodigies mentioned at the beginning of this chapter—are evidence of the powerful and lasting impact social influences can have on our behavior. The sisters practiced chess for many hours each day and continued this remarkable effort for decades. But these habits and behaviors maintained their attractiveness, in part, because they were valued by their culture. From the praise of their parents to the achievement of different status markers like becoming a grandmaster, they had many reasons to continue their effort. Chapter Summary The culture we live in determines which behaviors are attractive to us. We tend to adopt habits that are praised and approved of by our culture because we have a strong desire to fit in and belong to the tribe. We tend to imitate the habits of three social groups: the close (family and friends), the many (the tribe), and the powerful (those with status and prestige). One of the most effective things you can do to build better habits is to join a culture where (1) your desired behavior is the normal behavior and (2) you already have something in common with the group. The normal behavior of the tribe often overpowers the desired behavior of the individual. Most days, we’d rather be wrong with the crowd than be right by ourselves. If a behavior can get us approval, respect, and praise, we find it attractive. 🟢📚هایلایت قسمت ۸۳ کتاب عادت های اتمی 📚🟢 ✅ powerful : قدرتمند ✅ pursue : دنبال کردن ✅ prestige : پرستیژ ✅ status : منزلت ✅ medallion : مدال ✅ president : رییس ✅ partner : شریک ✅ acknowledge : قدر دانی کردن، اعتنا کردن ✅ recognize: شناختن ✅ praise : تعریف و تمجید کردن ✅ tendency : تمایل ✅ vain: بیهوده ✅ overall : روی هم رفته ✅ historically : در طول تاریخ ✅ resources : منابع ✅ drawn: شکل سوم فعل draw ✅ approval : تایید ✅ admiration : تحسین ✅ muscle-ups: حرکت بارفیکس ✅ progression : توالی ✅ accomplished : موفق ✅ separate : جدا شدن ✅ crowd: جمعیت ✅ effective people : انسان های تاثیر گذار ✅ desire : اشتیاق ✅ admire : تحسین کردن ✅ recipe : دستور پخت ✅ communication style : روش ارتباط برقرار کردن ✅ high-status: بلند مرتبه ✅ prodigies : نوابغ ✅ influence : تاثیر ✅ attractiveness : جذابیت ✅ achievement : دستیابی ➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖➖ 🌟اگر واستون مفید یا جالب بود لطفا به دوستاتونم معرفی کنید❣️ 🌟Instagram page: luminous__english 🌟Castbox channel: luminous english 🌟 YouTube channel: luminous_english

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