Think Again-Day61

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Disagreeable people don’t just challenge us to think again. Theynalso make agreeable people comfortable arguing, too. Instead ofnfleeing from friction, our grumpy colleagues engage it directly. Bynmaking it clear that they can handle a tussle, they create a norm fornthe rest of us to follow. If we’re not careful, though, what starts as a scuffle can turn into a brawl. How can we avoid that slippery slope? GETTING HOT WITHOUT GETTING MAD A major problem with task conflict is that it often spills over into relationship conflict. One minute you’re disagreeing about how much seasoning to put on the Thanksgiving turkey, and the next minute you find yourself yelling “You smell!” Although the Wright brothers had a lifetime of experience discovering each other’s hot buttons, that didn’t mean they always kept their cool. Their last grand challenge before liftoff was their single hardest problem: designing a propeller. They knew their airplane couldn’t take flight without one, but the right kind didn’t exist. As they struggled with various approaches, they argued back and forth for hours at a time, often raising their voices. The feuding lasted for months as each took turns preaching the merits of his own solutions and prosecuting the other’s points. Eventually their younger sister, Katharine, threatened to leave the house if they didn’t stop fighting. They kept at it anyway, until one night it culminated in what might have been the loudest shouting match of their lives. Strangely, the next morning, they came into the shop and acted as if nothing had happened. They picked up the argument about the propeller right where they had left off—only now without the yelling. Soon they were both rethinking their assumptions and stumbling onto what would become one of their biggest breakthroughs. The Wright brothers were masters at having intense task conflict without relationship conflict. When they raised their voices, it reflected intensity rather than hostility. As their mechanic marveled, “I don’t think they really got mad, but they sure got awfully hot.” کانال خلاصه کتاب (https://t.me/luminous_bookclub) کانال موزیک (https://t.me/luminous_music) کانال مکالمات روزمره (https://t.me/foroughpapi) #think_day59 📱 پیج اینستاگرام: Luminous__english Castbox channel: luminous english 📚هایلایت قسمت 61 کتاب Think Again ✅ Disagreeable people: People who are difficult or unpleasant to deal with, آدم‌های بداخلاق/سخت‌گیر ✅ Think again: Rethink; reconsider an idea, دوباره فکر کردن / بازنگری کردن ✅ Flee from friction: Avoid conflict or tension, فرار کردن از تنش یا درگیری ✅ Engage it directly: Face a problem without avoiding it, مستقیم روبه‌رو شدن با مشکل ✅ Handle a tussle: Deal with a small fight or struggle, از پس یک دعوای کوچک برآمدن ✅ Create a norm: Establish a standard behavior for others to follow, ایجاد یک هنجار ✅ Scuffle: A short, confused fight, درگیری یا کتک‌کاری کوچک ✅ Brawl: A noisy, rough fight, دعوای پر سر و صدا و شدید ✅ Slippery slope: A situation that could quickly get worse, سراشیبی خطرناک / شرایطی که بدتر می‌شود ✅ Spill over into: Expand into another area (often negative), سرریز شدن به / کشیده شدن به ✅ Hot buttons: Sensitive topics that trigger strong reactions, موضوعات حساس یا اعصاب‌خُردکن ✅ Keep their cool: Stay calm, آرام ماندن / خونسردی خود را حفظ کردن ✅ Liftoff: The moment of launch (literally or metaphorically), پرتاب / آغاز ✅ Back and forth: Moving or arguing repeatedly in two directions, رفت و برگشت / جر و بحث مداوم ✅ Raising their voices: Speaking louder, often in anger, صدایشان را بالا بردن ✅ Feuding: Engaged in long, bitter conflict, دشمنی یا دعوای طولانی‌مدت ✅ Preach the merits: Advocate for the advantages of something, تبلیغ کردن مزایا ✅ Prosecute someone’s points: Argue strongly against another’s ideas, شدیداً نقد کردن نظرات کسی ✅ Culminate in: End in or reach the highest point, به اوج رسیدن / ختم شدن به ✅ Shouting match: A loud argument, دعوای پر از داد و فریاد ✅ Acted as if nothing had happened: Pretended everything was normal, طوری رفتار کردن که انگار هیچ اتفاقی نیفتاده ✅ Pick up where they left off: Continue from the same point after a pause, ادامه دادن از همان جایی که قطع شده بود ✅ Rethinking assumptions: Questioning and reconsidering beliefs, بازنگری در فرضیات ✅ Stumble onto: Accidentally discover, به طور اتفاقی کشف کردن ✅ Breakthrough: An important discovery or achievement, پیشرفت بزرگ / کشف مهم ✅ Reflect intensity rather than hostility: Show passion without anger, شدت احساسات را نشان دادن نه خصومت ✅ Got awfully hot: Became very heated (emotionally), خیلی داغ شدن / هیجان‌زده شدن

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